What is the Spiritual Adult?

spiritualAs described by Lazaris (www.lazaris.com), a Spiritual Adult is the synergy of a free inner child, a curious inner adolescent, an inner nurturing parent and a healthy positive ego. Although we are accustomed to referring to ourselves as a singular me or I, we are actually multidimensional beings with different components of selves within.

A Spiritual Adult…

  • Operates from a place centered from within.
  • Makes conscious choices that are not based in fear and shame but are based in self-love, self-forgiveness, and self-discovery.
  • Understands that their “reality” (what they see in their outside world), is a reflection of what is going on in their inside world (their true reality).
  • Creates change by taking responsibility for their choices, beliefs and emotions. They do this with curiosity and love for themselves. Just as a good parent nurtures their child with compassion, forgiveness, wisdom and love, a spiritual adult access the same components for knowing and growing themselves.
  • Understands that knowing and feeling their full range of authentic emotions accelerates personal power and personal freedom.
  • Realizes and understands that when they reach for toxic emotions such as blame, self-pity, jealousy, or powerlessness, it numbs them out and takes them away from creating a powerful life.

In the next several newsletters, I will go into each of these areas in more depth. As you continue to awaken the spiritual adult within, you might try practicing the exercises below.

Take Action Now!

  • Notice when you blame others for how you feel or what is happening to you.
  • Notice when you are living in the past rather than focused on creating a powerful future.
  • Notice when you are feeling powerful or powerless. This is not either/or but a sliding scale. What helps you to feel the way you are feeling?
  • Pay attention to the people around you and in the media. Who do you think is a spiritual adult? What makes them a spiritual adult in your view? How do you feel in their presence? What do they do/not do?

Are you interested in learning more from what you read in these newsletters? If so, please email me at [email protected] to see if one of my programs can benefit you, your happiness and your personal growth.

Copyright 2009 Cindy Prosor.

Cindy Prosor, the Inner Feng Shui Guidess is a writer, teacher, entrepreneur and expert inner-peace coach. Cindy works with others who are ready to turn up the volume of love, inner-peace and abundance in their lives through her private and group mentoring and coaching programs. For more articles like this, please take a look around. While you are here, don’t forget to grab your FREE tips on the 7 Biggest Feng Shui Secrets to Creating Abundance, Better Relationships and Radiant Health.

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