In our family, we play a lot of games. One of our favorites is the card game, Rummy. When I was younger, a part of me needed to win to feel worthy… to feel good enough. I’ve learned over time that if we take the game too seriously, with only the desire to win, the fun of the game decreases, we become intense, people don’t enjoy being around us, and we forget the real reason for playing. To connect with others and to have fun! Fortunately, I’ve grown to realize that the reason to play games is...